When Women Refuse Silence: Kashmir and the Meaning of International Women’s Day.

When Women Refuse Silence: Kashmir and the Meaning of International Women’s Day.

Every year, International Women’s Day arrives with familiar slogans about equality, empowerment and progress. Across continents, from Latin America to Africa, from Palestine to Afghanistan, women are not merely demanding rights. They are organizing, resisting, documenting and rebuilding societies. And among the most powerful examples of resilience today are Kashmiri women. Their story is not only about suffering. It is about survival, courage and political consciousness in one of the world’s most militarized regions. To understand the meaning of International Women’s Day in the 21st century, we must listen to their voices.

For most of us, night is a time of rest. Homes close their doors, families gather, silence settles into streets. But imagine living in a place where night can suddenly turn into interrogation. This is not fiction. It is the lived experience of many women in Indian occupied Jammu & Kashmir. Residents of Drabgam, Rajouri, Kishtwar, Zainapora, Samba and other areas reported several late-night cordon-and-search operations conducted by occupation forces. Inside those homes, the experience was unsettling. Men were frequently ordered outside while occupation forces searched the houses and questioned women inside. Some women later described intimidation, repeated identity checks and the disruption of personal belongings during searches. Events like these might appear procedural when described in official language, but repeated encounters of this kind slowly reshape the emotional atmosphere of daily life.

A sudden knock on the door at midnight stops feeling ordinary. It becomes something that unsettles entire households. The psychological consequences of living with prolonged uncertainty are reflected in research as well. A study conducted by Médecins Sans Frontières in collaboration with local health institutions found that around 45 percent of adults in Kashmir show symptoms of mental distress, affecting roughly 1.8 million people. Women are particularly affected within this crisis. Studies indicate that nearly half of Kashmiri women experience depression, while many others report anxiety and trauma linked to decades of conflict.

Behind these statistics are deeply personal stories. Thousands of women in Kashmir are often described as “half-widows,” a term used for wives of men who disappeared during the conflict and whose fate remains unknown. For these women, grief is suspended in uncertainty. They must raise children, manage households and navigate bureaucratic obstacles without knowing whether their husbands are alive or dead.

Yet it would be misleading to portray Kashmiri women only through the lens of suffering. Their story is also one of remarkable agency. They have also emerged as educators, journalists, community organizers and political activists determined to shape the future of their society. One of the most widely discussed examples involves Asiya Andrabi, the founder of the women’s organization Dukhtaran-e-Millat. Along with Nahida Nasreen and Sofi Fehmeeda, she spent nearly eight years in detention before being convicted by a Special National Investigation Agency court in New Delhi on 14 January 2026 under India’s anti-terror legislation. The case drew strong reactions from civil-liberties advocates, who argued that the prolonged detention highlighted concerns about due process and the treatment of political dissent in Kashmir.

While legal debates continue around such cases, they also reveal something broader: Kashmiri women are increasingly visible within the political sphere. Their voices, whether through activism, journalism, or grassroots organizing, challenge the idea that women in conflict zones must remain silent observers of history. Instead, they insist on participating in the decisions that shape their future.

The challenges facing women in Kashmir also mirror broader issues across India. According to the National Crime Records Bureau, 448,211 crimes against women were recorded nationwide in 2023, averaging more than 1,200 reported cases every day. These crimes range from domestic violence to sexual assault, highlighting systemic inequalities that affect women across social and economic boundaries.

Caste and religion often intensify these vulnerabilities. In September 2025, national attention returned to Hathras district in Uttar Pradesh after a nineteen-year-old Dalit woman from Boolgarhi village reported sexual assault by upper-caste men. The incident revived memories of the widely condemned 2020 Hathras case and reminded many observers that caste hierarchies continue to shape women’s safety in rural India.

Religious tensions have also intensified the risks faced by minority women. During communal unrest in July 2025 in Nuh district, Haryana, Muslim families in areas such as Tauru and Punhana reported harassment and vandalism targeting their homes. For women in these communities, the fear extended beyond property damage. Many described the anxiety of protecting children and elderly relatives while rumours of violence spread through neighbourhoods.

Even visitors to India encounter the gender dynamics that shape everyday public spaces. On 26 February 2026, a video posted by Portuguese travel vlogger Ines Faria showed two men persistently following her through Colaba Causeway in Mumbai, repeatedly demanding selfies despite her refusals. The video circulated widely online and sparked renewed discussion about the safety of women in public spaces.

Seen together, these stories, from Kashmir to Mumbai, form part of a larger pattern. They remind us that the struggle for gender justice is shaped by many forces: conflict, economic inequality, social hierarchy and political polarization. Yet they also reveal something else. In every one of these contexts, women continue to challenge the conditions imposed upon them.

This is precisely why the experience of Kashmiri women carries such powerful meaning on International Women’s Day is often reduced to hashtags, corporate slogans and symbolic speeches. But the reality facing women worldwide demands more than symbolic gestures.

Women from Palestine, Sudan, Ukraine, Afghanistan, Iran and Kashmir are reminding the world that feminism cannot exist without confronting militarization, authoritarianism and economic exploitation.

When women living under the pressures of conflict continue to demand dignity, they challenge not only local power structures but also global indifference. Their determination expands the meaning of freedom itself. And as long as their voices continue to be heard, the promise of International Women’s Day will remain alive, not as a slogan, but as a shared commitment to justice.

The author is the head of the research and human rights department of Kashmir Institute of International Relations (KIIR). She can be reached at : mehr_dua@yahoo.com and on X @MHHRsays

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